I'm at peace with it now, I shared the story with a couple friends yesterday and you guys... its crazy but it actually helps. I have a plan moving forward. A good friend is a legitimate test pilot for Utah state, and does occasional work for nasa. Im turning the project over to him to punch the squawks, it'll be good to place some distance between me and the issue. Ive already built a beautiful aircraft for this guy as a hobby, as according to my math (without the final 12k payment) it works out to 24k/year for the 2.5 year build, So .... I got an education, once again, that i paid for.
The biggest thing ive learned is to never do a resto again for anyone but me, as my detail level work drives me too far into unpaid hours. I suppose if a guy came to me and said "I want an award winner and you have a 300k budget "...... maybe, but I'd need to ponder and meditate over it for at least a week.
From previous life experience and friends, I've learned that this behavior is a negotiation tactic... often used by a portion of the better healed among us.
I always taught my children people are more important than things, most never learned that lesson, all three of my sons are eagle scouts, they and my 2 daughters were brought up to live by the principals of the scout oath and law... Now in a world in which the BSA cant operate within its own original framework, im pleased to observe my children do.
Like i mentioned my worst day this month is nothing compared to Johnathans.
Tamara and Zadok will be dearly missed, unfortunately Johnathan is left here critically injured and with no potential for an income. I'll be forking what little I get on the next couple of jobs, hopefully it'll help, even if only to buy groceries.
